In the olden days, virginity was valued to the extent that non-virgins were seen as plagues. These days, where three or more young people are gathered, a virgin will only be in that movie they are watching. Sexual debut has drastically dropped to 14yrs among girls and 16 years among boys. The question is where did the rains start beating? Are the generation Y more “atomically charged in their garage”? My analysis points towards;
1. Swag - What's up Babe; the young people nowadays form cocoons of peers adept at exploiting their sexual prowess. Sharing of sexual experiences remains the best stories and thus promoting early sexual debut to conform.
2. Absentee parents; modern parents are more pre-occupied with jobs and have no room for their children. Discussing sexuality with children is like taboo leaving the children with the alternative source-the friends, who give misconceptions leading to sex.
3. Sexting; the emergence of WhatsApp has promoted high sexual activity. Youth are these days fond of ‘having sex’ through phones until the feeling become unbearable leading to demand for sex. Let’s be careful with what we do with our phones. Couples these days hide their clandes in pretext of “sweetie I’m just in group chats”-unachezwa.
4. Insensitive school rules; students best release their sexual pleasure through letters. To the schools that still tear letters you are courting lesbianism and gayism. Allow these young peopleto socialize during outings and through letters. Let them have sex with that kasuku foolscap. However, constant guidance should be given to control this.
Engaging in premature sex isn’t swag but shags, it’s not a pleasure but pressure from stress, and it’s not sweet but risky. Stop putting your health at risk. Ladies, what drives you to date your dad’s age mate? What pleasure is in kissing white beards? You are such a social misfit, sexual borehole and relationship wheelbarrow.
Lastly, remember:
It simply takes to tango but you two would end up in a stumble. If you tumble yourself in a stumble, you will find yourself in a misnoma; making us call you Ashawo.
1. Swag - What's up Babe; the young people nowadays form cocoons of peers adept at exploiting their sexual prowess. Sharing of sexual experiences remains the best stories and thus promoting early sexual debut to conform.
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Fathers reading this, when is the last time you bought your daughter pads? Mothers when did you buy your son pants? We abdicate our roles to whom? Let me remind the parents that their work was not sweating profusely and making noise to the neighbors when servicing the vehicles, but also offering proper parenting to the children.
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