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“There was a prenuptial agreement between my sister and her
fiancé that she would not use social-media applications such as Facebook, Snapchat,
Instagram or Twitter to post or send her pictures,” the bride’s brother said. “This
made know to her before the marriage hence she should cooperate. Regretfully,
my sister did not honour the pledge and used Facebook to share pictures from
the wedding ceremony with her female friend who happen to be the ex of groom,
resulting in the shocking decision by the groom to cancel their marriage and
call for divorce,” he said, quoted by Ola
Oguleye on Monday.
Relatives from both families were bitterly divided over the
decision. Some said that it was the logical conclusion since the bride failed
to abide by the agreement.
However, other family members said that the mobile picture
condition was not fair or at least should not have applied to the wedding
ceremony.
In May, a Lagos legal expert warned against the alarmingly
growing figures of divorce among newly-weds, saying that they reached around 32
per cent.
Misunderstandings, differences in
views and the easy approach to marriage without a deep appreciation of the
responsibilities that come with it are among the major causes for divorce among
young people,” Mr. Okhumagbe said. “Marriages are bound to fail when there are
no robust foundations or trust.”
The expert was commenting on news that a Yoruba bride was
divorced shortly after the marriage ceremony when she ignored her groom and
kept chatting with her friends on her mobile.
“Following the marriage ceremony, the groom took his bride to
the hotel where they had booked a room,” a relative said. “However, as soon as
the bride was in the room, she started using her mobile phone. Her groom tried
to get closer with her and become more intimate, but he was shocked when she
ignored him, not responding to his words or action. When he asked her about the
reasons, she answered she was busy responding to her friends who were
congratulating her on her marriage. The groom asked her to delay answering the
messages, but she refused and became angry. When he asked her if her friends
were more important than he was, the bride answered that they were.”
As the argument between them became more tense, the groom told
his bride he was divorcing her and left the hotel.
The relative said that a divorce case was filed and the court
referred it to the reconciliation committee to assess if the newly-weds could
be reconciled, the relative added.
However, the groom, too hurt in his pride to forgive, refused to
withdraw the case and insisted on the divorce.
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